Hi, I'm James (he/him)

I’m a white, queer, neurodivergent trans man providing embodiment and intimacy coaching to adults and couples who want to reconnect with their bodies, limits, and desires. This includes building skills around:

• Body awareness

• Nervous system regulation

• Identifying what you want

• Communicating boundaries, needs, and desires

• Navigating partner differences

• Somatic tools for common sexual issues

• Expanding your erotic horizons

These skills support your day-to-day life, and can also support eroticism and intimacy if that's something you want to explore. 

I believe reclaiming bodily autonomy and pleasure is personal, political, and especially urgent for those of us who've been taught our desires, bodies, or ways of processing the world are "wrong." I work with people of all sexual orientations and genders, and am especially passionate about helping those who may be misunderstood or stigmatized in the sexual realm, for example people who are:

• Asexual / on the ace-spectrum

• Older (65+)

• Disabled

• Religious and/or spiritual

• Poly / non-monogamous

• Sex workers

• Into kink / BDSM

Learn more about my coaching practice on my website: www.FeelForYourself.com

Interested in working together? Schedule a free 30-minute consultation with me.